Alfie (2004) - 7

This is a remake of the 1966 version of the film. I did not expect to like this film as much as I did. It seems shallow on the surface but is in fact deeper than most films. The story of Alfie deals with the consequences of his actions, and his own realization that it is in the meaning of these consequences that pain and love reside. Early in the film, he sees women as sexual conquests, and doesn't want to commit to anything serious or long term because he sees it as best for everyone involved. But as he thinks about and realizes the effects that these actions have on his relationships and his longing for connecting and belonging, he realizes that it is in these lasting, scary and vulnerable relationships that true love is found. He is able to conclude that it is our own fear that keeps us empty. There is a great scene in which Alfie recognizes that it is his own selfishness that has hurt others and all he can do is hope that others are able to forgive him. It shows how vulnerable and honest people need to be in order to be and live in true love towards another.
(The film also has a great concluding song by Mick Jagger and Dave Stewart, "Old Habits Die Hard." Most of the soundtrack was written by them.)